5. NGAIHSUTNA MAAN MANPHATNA
Ngaihsutdan a maan leh nuntakzia kilamdang khin thei hi. Sep ding khatpeuh a lawhcin theih nadinga kingakna poimawh mahmah pen ‘ngaihsutkholhdan’ hi mawk hi. Ngaihsutna maan neih theih nading pawlkhat i genkhinta hi. Tua banah ngaihsutna maan in mihing nuntakna-ah a hoih lamin na tampi piangsak thei a, manphatna tampi nei hi.
Toronto khuapi ah unau tangval nih om hi. Unau laigui zom ahih uh hangin a uzaw pen guihtheih-khamtheih tawh a kidiah tawntung hi a, a nauzaw pen tangval hoih leh lawhcing mahmah ahi hi. Khatpa pen genthei taka zu khama
a om maimai lai-in, a sanggampa in limtakin na sem a, sumbawl mi hau mahmah suak hi. Bang hangin tua banga inn khat pan a piangkhawm unaute’ nuntakzia kilamdang thei ahi hiam?
A uzawpa kiangah, “Bang hangin zu lungvei a, genthei takin om na hiam?” ci-a dotna a kidot leh, ama’n “Ka pa hang hi. Ka pa hang bekbek hi. Ka pa pen zu lungvei mah hi a, zu a kham ciangin hong tawngden, hong vua/satden a, tua bang innkuan pana khangkhia ka hih manin bangci banga hoih thei dingin hong lamen na hi uh hiam? Ka khankhiatna mun tawh kituaka nungta ka hi hi” ciin dawng hi.
A nauzawpa kiangah, “Hizahta a na lawhcinna bang hang hiam?” a cih uh leh, ama’n, “Ka pa hang hi. Ka pa hang bekbek hi. Ka naupan lai-in zu lungvei ahih manin zu khamden a, zu a
kham simin a nuntak a hoihloh dan leh a nasep hoihloh dan thei ka hih manin tua banga om sawm lo ka hih manin tu-a ka dinmun a tung thei hi’ng” ci hi.
Hih unaute nuntakzia panin lungsim ngaihsutna in mihing nuntakna-ah na a sepdan kimu thei hi. Muh kibang, muhdan kibang hi a, a ngaihsutna uh kibang loin, tua ngaihsutna in amau sunga na a sep dan kibang lo cihna hi.
Ngaihsutna maan lo tawh si taak-a a kingaihsun mi pen kigui-awkin si ziau a, dam taak-a a kingaihsunte in sih theih nading tuamtuam – gilkialna, gentheihna, migi lo khut sung leh na lamdangpi panin zong khuasuak nading ngaihsun uh a, tua dingin semin khuasuak takpi uh hi. Tua manin ngaihsutna maan pen i neih kisam mahmah hi.
Mah le mah kimuanna hi
Na tungah na hoih leh cihtheihna (potential) tampi om a, thei lo thei hi teh! Mi lungsim a thuzawh thei, mi a lungdamsak thei, lungsim hangsan mahmah zong na hi kha ding hi. Ahih hangin, tua bang mi hi-in kithei kha lo thei na hi. Ngaihsutna maan na neih leh tua in mah le mah kimuanna (self confidence) hong neisak ding a, tua-in tua na sungtawng a om hatna leh cihtheihna pen a meet theipen dingin hong pholhkhiatsak thei hi. Sepna khat peuhpeuhah lawhsapna leh sepkhialhna a om ciangin mah le mah kimuanna a om leh, ‘try try again’ cih thupil hangsan takin kizui thei hi. Tua-in lawhcing dingin a sem masa ngam hihna piangsak hi.
Sepkhiat ngamna hi
Lawmte tawh sep ding genkhop hun cianga, ‘Ama’n hong vaihawm hen’ ci-a na min a lawh hun uh a om ngei hiam? Ngaihsutna maan neite in kimuanngamna nei uh a, tua pen mite in muhpihin, amah bek hi loin, midangte zong makaih a, amaute tungah vaihawm a, bul a pan masa dingin muangngam uh hi. Tua bang mite, mite muan bangin omin, mite muan bangin sem thei takpi uh hi.
Mainawtna tawh khantohna hi A masa lama i gen khempeuh banga mi a nuntak ciangin mainawtin khangto lo thei lo hi. Tua bang nuntakna tawh na maiah hamphatna leh lawhcinna kongkhak tampi na hon zawh ciangin zong hon beh zel ding tampi tak om lai hi-in na thei ding hi. Na nuntakna in tua lampi a lunggulhna hangin a bucingzaw dingin nang-le-nang na kihek-lem thei ding hi.
Lungkiat pahpahlohna hi
Pawlkhatte pen i lungkia baih mahmah hi. A cil panin a lawhsam hi-in kithei-in, i lungsim puakzia maan lo hi. Lungsim puakzia a maan leh, mah le mah kimuanna leh a taka sepkhiat ngamna piang a, tua in cihtakna leh a lungsim kho piangsak hi. Nekzonna leh sumbawlna khat peuhpeuhah khatvei lawhsapna om khin hi. Tua bang hun ciangin mi pawlkhatte a lawhsamin kingaihsunin tawpsan pah uh a, a lungkia pahpah lote in sem kik uh a, lawhcing uh hi.
Sep khialh pen a kinei thei mah hi. Ahih hangin mibang lote bekin a sep khialhnasa uah semkhial kikkik uh hi. Sepkhialh i neih a, tua hanga i lawhsap leh tua i sepkhialna pen lungkiat nadinga zang loin, a hoihzaw lampi hong lak danin tuat ding hizaw hi.
Na thak ngaihsutkhiat theihna hi
Na ngaihsutdan a maan kei leh na thak na ngaihsunkhia thei kei ding a, na thak vaihawmin na semkhia thei kei ding hi. Albert Einstein in, “Ngaihsutna lungsim a dam kei leh a hoih ngaihsut khiat theih hi lo hi” ci liang hi. A hoih lamah i ngaihsutna i paisak leh na thak mu-in, pai sin nopna, sepsin nopna, leh a manphatna muhkhiat nopna lungsim tawh na kisem pah thei ding hi.
Makai hih theihna hi
Mi hangsan i cihte, makai hoih i cihte pen a hoih lama ngaihsutna a zang, ngaihsutna maan a neite na hiden uh hi. Lungdam thei uh a, a kiang uah om nuamin, muanngam dingin nungta uh hi. Muhkholna (vision) nei uh a, mi in muangngam pah uh hi. ‘Makai’ cih thumal pen ngaihsun kik dih ve. Leitungah nangmah bek om hi lecin makai hih a kisapna om lo ding hi. Makai cih pen amah bekin om thei lo a, midang tawh kizopna thu ahi hi. Midangte muanngam nuntakna neih nadingin mah le mah kimuanna (self confi- dence) neih kisam hi.
Napoleon Bonaparte in, “Makai in a kiim a kianga mipite lungsimah lawhcinna leh mah le mah kimuanngamna tuh a, a nasep nop a tangtun theih nadingin a nungzuite sungah cihtheihna/nasep theihna koih masa hi” ci hi.
Lawhcin nopna lungsim piangsak hi
I gen pen ngaihsutna maan manphatna ahih lam phawk gige ni. W.W Ziege in, “Ngaihsutna maan neite’ tupna pen kuama’n lawhsamsak thei lo a, ngaihsutna maan lo neite
ahih leh kuamah in a lawhcin nadingin panpih thei lo hi” ci hi. Mi pawlkhatte nisim hun zatdan pen – mi hong gensiatna- ah kitat nadinga ei hoihna genna, ei le ei kihehpihna, eima dikna leh ei le ei kikepbit nading genna in kizang bei hi. Tuate pen a kisap hun om mah hi. Tua sangin, lawhcinna lampi tawnin, a lawhcing thei ding bang hiam sep sawmin lungsim ngaihsutna zang le’ng, i buaina thu dang tuamtuamte pen hong veng pah ziau ding hi. Benjamin Franklin in, “Paulap bawl a siamte in siam dang nei khol lo uh hi” ci hi.
Lawhcinna lam gen ding ciangin, mihing pen a gihna (weight), a hih-theihna (ability), a hauhna (wealth) leh a innkuan thupina (family background) pan kiteh thei lo a, a ngaihsutna neu leh liat, toi leh zai thu-ah kingazaw hi. I ngaihsutna ciacia-in kinungta cih theih hi. A kisam lopi a ngaihsutna zaisak lam sin a sawm i hi kei a, a manpha leh lawhcing thei ding ngaihsutna lam pen i gensawm ahi hi. Tua ngaihsutnazia pen hih bangin kigen thei hi : Tuipi-ah puanzak a zang tembaw na hawl a, huih hong nungin, tua huih pen na uk theih hi lo hi. Ahih hangin, huih nundan tawh kituakin, leh zangsiam thei dingin tembaw puanzak na heklem thei hi. Tua bangin, na kiim na kianga na uk theilohte pen manpha taka zangin, na hatna hong suak thei hi. Tua hi lo a, paulap zong a, na ngaihsutna a maan kei leh tuate sanga nang hong siasakzaw ding dang om tuan lo hi.
Tua ahih manin :
Na ngaihsutna in na nuntakna nakpi’n makaih thei ahih
lam neu ngaihsut kei in. * A zungpi pen sung lamah kiphum a, a gah pen a pua
lamah kidawkhia hi. * Thugenna sangin muanhuaina in lungsim zo zaw hi.
A hoih lama ngaihsutna a nei mi na hih hangin lawhcing pelmawh ding cihna hi tuan lo hi. Ahih hangin, tuabang a ngaihsutna a nei mi na hih leh lawhcinna lampi na tawn lo thei kei ding a, lawhcin leh lawhcinloh pen tua lampi a na pai laitaka na nasepna tungah kinga ding hi.
Zolaiding : 6. NGAIHSUTNA MAAN LO HOIHLOHNA
